Prostate massage or prostate milking - what if you refuse to do it for him?

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8 Responses to “Prostate massage or prostate milking - what if you refuse to do it for him?”

  1. candleinthewind7579 Says:

    Think again…he was trying to lead you into something you don’t want to do

  2. FoundMyStar Says:

    I guess you have to explain to him that at first you did not really know what it was or what it entailed so it freaked you out a little bit but now you are willing to ummmmmm ‘lend a hand’ (or a finger) because it is medical.

    It was a little harsh for him to threaten your relationship by saying he would go elsewhere but if you want him back then it’s up to you.

    As long as you are sure it is medical

  3. Dr.MPB Says:

    You can assume he is Gay.

  4. THINK Says:

    I don’t think thats really a big deal to be honest.
    But leaving you over it is.

  5. Shady N Says:

    well u can win him back by telling him that u will do it, however, u must differentiate between 2 things does he like u playing in the perineum area which is the other area if so that is a man with open sexual fantacies and that is something many men who go to massage parlours enjoy but if it is milking by inserting ur figers and he also says that he can have a man do that for him this is simple the first step for him being gay and i am afraid u will come back home and find him sleeping with another man

  6. V Says:

    Come on! Any guy is prepared to get another guy to massage his prostate gland has to be a bit weird. I had not heard about it, and just read about it. Yes, it sounds like it could be a legitimate medical procedure, but it sounds more likely that this is just how the guy gets his kicks, particularly as he doesn’t want to have sex with you.

    Do you really want to be with this guy? He was prepared to let you go because you weren’t prepared to do his thing for him. In and of itself, anything that two people get up to is fine, but would you refuse to have normal sex with a man but insist instead that he stimulate your G-Spot “for medical purposes”?

    Give him up. Find yourself a man. You might be prepared to do anything for this relationship, but it sounds as if he is just looking for a homo sapiens that will stick its finger up his as s.

  7. Faith-N-Fate14 Says:

    If it was a medical reason he needed his prostate drained then he would have sought medical attention. It seems he wanted you to do this for sexual pleasure. You shouldn’t be ashamed, you have the right to say no if you don’t feel comfortable with something, If he truly loved you sex wouldn’t be an issue to break up with you. ;)

  8. gramophoneshane Says:

    I wouldn’t worry too much about it. If he needed “treatment” so badly, it would be quite easy for him to do it himself. I think he was really after some arse play, nothing else.

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