I want my girlfriend to use a strapon for prostate massage- but she thinks it is totally gay? Pls help?
joni j asked:
I have no attraction towards guy whatsoever. She thinks I am gay to suggest this prostate massage strap on. Please advise what to do.
Tags: Gay Help, Prostate, Prostate Massage, Strapon
October 27th, 2008 at 11:40 am
You cant force her too ….
October 28th, 2008 at 12:46 pm
it’s not gay unless she’s on top.
October 31st, 2008 at 5:24 pm
you silly gay guy dicks are 4 chicks
November 1st, 2008 at 7:45 pm
If she refuses to do it, it’s time for you to find someone who will. Let her know you intend on it unless she is willing to get down with you.
November 4th, 2008 at 7:28 pm
Get a new girlfriend, and by girlfriend i mean boyfriend.
November 5th, 2008 at 10:45 am
It’s not really “gay”, but if your girlfriend is uncomfortabe with it, you can’t force her to do it.
November 5th, 2008 at 12:23 pm
That is so freakin’ gay. I don’t care who you “say” you like.
November 7th, 2008 at 3:40 pm
I really don’t blame her. This is a bit odd of a requet. If you honestly need it done for health reasons then do it yourself.
November 8th, 2008 at 2:45 am
get a different girl if she can’t satisfy you move on
November 10th, 2008 at 12:17 pm
You want to take it in the asss, and that’s not gay?
I’m not saying your a homosexual, but let’s face it, a guy taking a dildo to the asss sounds pretty gay.
November 13th, 2008 at 8:20 pm
YES MY FRIEND THOUGH YOU SAY YOUR NOT ATTRACTED TO GUYS, BUT DEEP INSIDE YOU LIKE IT RIGHT LOL GOOD LUCK MAN JUST DON’T LET THAT STRAPON GET A HOLD OF YOUR REAR ROFL.
November 15th, 2008 at 8:55 pm
Tie the stap-on to the bed post when she is gone. Im not joking, why wouldnt it work!!!
November 19th, 2008 at 12:02 am
Dude if it’s a turn off for her compromise and figure out something that wont turn her off but will work… maybe you could get an anal sex toy or something that she doesn’t have to deal with.
November 19th, 2008 at 5:47 pm
umm yeah get a …thingy…without the strap and do it yourself!!
November 20th, 2008 at 1:16 pm
Prostrate massage? You’re gay dude.
November 23rd, 2008 at 8:01 pm
i don’t know what ur talkin about so i don’t have an answer but i was bored so i answeresd anyways
November 23rd, 2008 at 11:29 pm
You need to respect her wishes! If she is uncomfortable with this, then you need to let it go. If you stay together long enough, you might get another opportunity in a few years. For now, find something else to enjoy with her. But pushing her into a sex act she doesn’t want would be wrong. It’s not a gender bias. I would tell her the same thing.
November 26th, 2008 at 3:53 pm
she’s right, it’s super gay…you should probably just come out of the closet
November 26th, 2008 at 6:18 pm
Tell her a reason… what result you wanted to have…
November 29th, 2008 at 5:22 pm
Find a girl who is willing. I’ve done it for my boyfriend, and he can’t get enough of it now. We got it on video too. It’s awesome. It was a fantasy I wanted to act out. He was the one that was unwilling to do it at first. He really enjoys it. Your gf should be more willing to try new things to please her man.
December 3rd, 2008 at 12:46 am
don’t worry about gay or straight, strap-ons are fun and you two should enjoy!
December 4th, 2008 at 11:30 am
get a boyfriend
December 5th, 2008 at 12:55 pm
sounds like you want the whole wammy up there!!!! i agree, its really gay!
GO to the doctor if your having problems with the prostate thing!!
they make medicine for that too
December 8th, 2008 at 8:44 am
Explain to her that prostrate massage is more stimulating, and that it has nothing to do with sex with men. Tell her its her you want giving you the most pleasurable experience that a man can have, and that its a bonding experience for you both. If she is still not into it, than back off. Its something she has a problem with, not you.
December 9th, 2008 at 7:56 pm
Dude, get a vibrating egg and get her one too. put them in and have sex like normal. She will love it and you will get what you want as well.
And she won’t have to feel gay.
December 11th, 2008 at 10:24 pm
This is something you are going to have to do without if your girlfriend is unwilling to do it.
December 13th, 2008 at 8:51 am
listen to her.
It IS gay.
December 15th, 2008 at 11:58 am
You people are so rude, immature and close minded…
But anyway…You can’t force your gf to do it…
Is it the strap on that she has a problem with? Or just the whole idea of sticking something up your bum in general? How would she feel about putting her gloved finger in?
If she’s still not into it they seel some dildos with like suction cups on the end and you could do it yourself…They also have toys but make sure that you get one that is made for it and has some kinda of umm…thicker backing to it…Uhh…This may sound but…a stopper? lol…That way it can’t slip to far inside of you…
December 17th, 2008 at 8:57 pm
LMAO B3tt3r Man….that is the funniest answer ever. You’d totally get my 10 points if it were up to me. LOL…
Dude, you are so gay.